I did discuss it with him and said I thought it was weird, noticed she was fb friends with his sister and that it made me uncomfortable, reminded me of things, and that on top of us having intimacy issues, it really had me worried. Recently this woman popped up in a local mom group (to ME, not him) and brought feelings I thought I was over flooding back. I know it’s possible but, I just FEEL like something else is going on he’s not telling me.ġ2 years ago before we were married, we had infidelity issues that we worked through.
He’s even mentioned being worried about ED. He says mentally he is attracted and he loves me very much but physically nothing works (apparently he can’t even pleasure himself, but how the hell am I gonna know that’s true?!). We’ve talked and he says, INSISTS even that it’s NOT me, it’s him. He is visibly “ready” at certain times and agreed to try once about a month or so back and he just goes limp.
He has almost flinched when I go to touch him “down there” almost as if he’s disgusted, I’ve tried to “service him” orally once a couple weeks ago and he screamed like it was too sensitive and didn’t want it (usually if he doesn’t want to that will make him change his mind).
We have NOT done it in so long, I can’t remember when and I can’t even have sex with him in my dreams (seriously, even my DREAMS present a problem to us having sex but at least in my head he WANTS it). Happy anniversary, babe”) and usually, my husband is always up for sex. This is our 3rd child, we just celebrated our 11year wedding anniversary this month (he didn’t even try to make it special btw, I posted a heartfelt post on fb and a cute collage pic and he said “awe, I love you too. So, I know someone else had a post about basically having no sex and I shared my story of basically not having had sex since shortly after we conceived on that thread. Hey moms! This is gonna be long so, please read it all and help me out.
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